Easy Corn Relish

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Last night for dinner, we had Tilapia with a Greek cucumber sauce on pita bread, topped with an amazing corn relish that I made up as I went along in an attempt to use some veggies that were about to expire. It was so yummy that Mister said I should share it here.

I don't usually do a lot of recipes, even back in the day when I blogged as Living Like Grandma (oh, how I wish I still had that blog). However, when I post them, I don't do a lot of 'blabbing' and loads of pictures. If you're here for this post, you're here for the recipe, not my ramblings.  So, with that said, let's get to it. 




Corn Relish

Ingredients
  • 4 Tbs of olive oil, separated
  • 4 ears of corn
  • 1 medium jalapeño
  • 1 medium red onion
  • 2 Tbs minced garlic
  • 1 medium zucchini
  • 1 cup cherry tomatoes
  • 2 Tbs liquid smoke
  • water
  • 1 Tbs of Cajun seasoning (or more if you like)
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • 2 Tbs heavy cream *optional 
Directions

Using 3 Tbs of the olive oil, coat the ears of corn and char. I like to char mine over an open flame, but you can also do it in the oven under broil or in a skillet on high. Once cooled, cut the kernels off the cob.

Dice the onion, jalapeño, and zucchini.  Cut the cherry tomatoes into quarters. 

Heat the last Tbs of olive oil in a large skillet. Sauté the onions and jalapeños until soft and lightly browned.  Add in the garlic and cook until fragrant, about 1 minute. Next, add in the zucchini and continue to cook until the vegetables are cooked down.  Toss in the tomatoes and cook for another minute, then add in the liquid smoke and just enough water to simmer it all in. I may have used 1/4 cup; this was the one thing I didn't measure. Add in the seasoning and give it a good stir.

Once cooked through, about 5 minutes, if using, add in the heavy cream. Cook for about two minutes, then turn off, letting the corn relish thicken. 

We ate this over grilled tilapia, but it would work great over chicken, beef, or just in a bowl. 





Pre-Empty Nest Thoughts

 With Ms H turning 19, the hard realization that I'll be an empty nester within a year is starting to sink in. 

I'm not sure I'm ready. 

I'm proud of the woman she's becoming, and I know it's time (nearly) for her to spread her wings, but y'all.  She 'needs' me less and less each day, which, again, I know is a good thing, but I miss that small girl who needed me to tie her shoes. Ms H is fiercely independent, tackling things like ACT testing, signing up for community college, and doctor and dentist appointments on her own. It's strange to not be needed for all the 'things' I did for her so often over the years. 

I know in the grand scheme she still needs me. I mean, after all, I'm 43 and still need my momma. Yet, it's not quite the same. 

No matter how big she gets, she'll always be my munchkin


I've spent the last 24 years raising babies, and much of that time as a stay-at-home wife and mother. It's weird thinking that part of my life is over. I'm learning to be 'me' again, not only the 'mom' version of myself. I've worked hard over the last half-decade to find myself after raising little ones, but the kids came first. 

Now it'll just be me and Mister the majority of our days. That freedom is a touch scary and exciting. I'm discovering new hobbies, things to fill my days. I'm learning to be at peace with an empty and quiet house during the day. The quiet isn't so weird, but the emptiness is very odd.

I couldn't ask for a better person to spend the rest of my days with.

I'm trying to get accustomed to an empty house most of the day with Mister and Ms H both working. I put on an audiobook to help cut the dead silence, but still, the emptiness is a lot to bear. 

I really don't know how I'll ever get used to it. We did just adopt a sweet fur baby; I'm hoping her presence will bring me some additional comfort once Ms H does move out. 

Lord, I can see it now. I'm going to be one of those little old ladies carrying on full conversations with her pup. Ya know, that's something I can look forward to. 



Homemaker Sunday ~ 10/18-10/24

 Good morning! 

I can't remember why I ever stopped drinking coffee in the mornings.

It was a wonderful weekend. Mister and I spent Saturday at home enjoying relaxing, football, and the new puppy Wednesday. We are all quite smitten with her. She's so stinking smart too! She figured out the doggy door in about 10 minutes. I really think she was abandoned because she wasn't spayed and had puppies. She's definitely house trained, minus the jumping up on couches, which will have to be corrected. I don't mind a pup on my furniture but Mister doesn't want her on the leather couches, to be fair I understand,they are new and costly.

How you could not be smitten when looking at this sweet girl.

Alas, I can't spend the whole post talking about my sweet girl. On to the week ahead. 

So far this is what my week is shaping up to look like:

~~Weather~~

Sunday: 68/43
Monday: 71/47
Tuesday: 73/48
Wednesday: 76/49
Thursday: 79/22
Friday: 81/54
Saturday: 81/56

~~Current Mood~~

Utterly content. The weather is gorgeous this morning, on the chilly side with bright sunshine and the house is peaceful while everyone else sleeps in. I got the morning dishes done and am now relaxing in my book nook before heading to work. 

My book nook before I brought my plants in


~~Meal Plan~~

Sunday: Fend For Yourself
Monday: Baked tilapia with cucumber sauce and a corn salad
Tuesday: Three cheese tortellini with homemade sauce and garlic French bread
Wednesday: Homemade pizza
Thursday: Date night-Kpot with the team
Friday: Chicken with Cajun cream sauce, mashed potatoes, green beans
Saturday: Korean Beef Bowls

~~Going Ons~~

Sunday: Spark Driving 
Monday: Call about allergies for Ms H, look into housing for Mrs K
(oldest daughter)
Wednesday: Take Wednesday to get spayed and microchipped
Thursday: Date night...Kpot!
Saturday: Taking bestie out for birthday fun

~~Around the House~~

Morning dishes are done


  • Work on cleaning entryway section of floor (I'm officially halfway through the floors!)
  • Laundry/ironing
  • Clean kitchen cabinets
  • Go through small inside freezer and plan next week's meals around it
  • Make beef broth

~~Working Out~~

In an attempt to not undo all the work my physical therapist has done, I'm starting a gentle workout routine this week.  My goal is stretching joints and nerves daily, strengthening twice a week, and cardio three times a week. I'm aiming to do around 15 minutes of cardio and build up from there slowly.

~~Currently Reading~~


Gone With the Wind by Margaret Mitchell (audiobook about 10 hours of 49 left)
Out of the Deeps by John Wyndham

An sci-fi from the 1950s


~~Creative Outlet~~


This week I'm going to let cooking be my creative outlet. It's a hobby I really enjoy, and I am thoroughly in the mood to cook. I think it's the cooler weather.

~~Favorite Photo~~


Ms H falling in love with Wednesday.



And that's my week in a nutshell. What are you up to this week?

What I Spent What We Ate: Meet Wednesday

 Everyone, meet Wednesday, the newest member of our household.


Wednesday is the sweetest girl


We rescued her from the local pet center yesterday. She's the sweetest; she loves to play and lie back chilling. It's been sixteen months since we lost our last fur baby, and we are finally healed enough to open our hearts to another precious doggo.

And because I didn't get many dinner shots this week, instead you get Wednesday pictures.

What I Spent:

$45 and some change at Aldi's, which includes a bit of food for next week

$65.32 at Walmart

$85 eating out

What we ate:

Monday 

We had pulled pork sliders with chickpea fries. I wasn't overly impressed with the 'fries'; the texture was off. The pulled pork was a hit as always. We put it on Hawaiian bread topped with provolone cheese. Yum!

Her first hours home were spent sniffing and relaxing on the carpet


Tuesday

This was Ms H's birthday, and we ate food from India Mart. There was butter chicken curry, paneer tikka masala, palak paneer, and lots of naan. This was a large chunk of the $85 we spent eating out this week; however, it was planned for birthday fun!


The only food picture of the week.



Wednesday

We had leftovers for lunch and potluck goodness for dinner. I really wish I'd taken time to take a few snapshots of the feast that was laid out. There was deer sausage soup, red beans and rice, a paneer curry, chili, Thai chicken curry, cheese dips, potato mac and cheese, appetizers, desserts, and much more. I love that Mister has so many cultures represented on his team; we get ALL the food! There was one dish in particular; it was more of an appetizer that I've got to figure out how to make. It was a boiled egg on a puff pastry with some sort of onion relish. Oh my dear Lord, I could have made myself sick on those. 

She is loving the big backyard


Thursday through Saturday

One of the perks of hosting a potluck is the copious amounts of leftovers. We've been eating leftover Indian food, chili, and red beans and rice. 

Lots of good morning yawns

What did you eat this week?





Easy Corn Relish

Jump to Recipe Last night for dinner, we had Tilapia with a Greek cucumber sauce on pita bread, topped with an amazing corn relish that I ma...